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CUSTODY TUG-OF-WAR Protecting Your Children During a F or many parents, the most daunting aspect of divorce is the potential loss of precious time with their children. This fear, combined with the heightened emotions often present in divorce cases, can escalate custody disagreements into contentious battles that leave children vulnerable. It is, however, entirely possible to shield children from conflict and continue effective parenting during and after a custody dispute. Partners Carla Calabrese and Lee Budner of the family law firm Calabrese Budner and their STRATEGIC SOLUTIONS TO AVOID PARENTAL ALIENATION AND OTHER CHALLENGES IN CUSTODY DISPUTES PAPERCITY PROMOTION team have successfully guided countless parents through contentious custody cases, utilizing collaborative approaches that foster cooperation and constructive dialogue as well as aggressive representation in high-conflict litigation. "Regardless of the complexity and severity of the situation, ensuring the well-being of the children is always our top priority," Calabrese says. Address the Elephant in the Room: Parental Alienation One of the most pressing concerns for parents — yet often the hardest to pinpoint and address — is parental alienation. This topic has become more prevalent in recent years, garnering the attention of mental health professionals, scholars, and courts alike. "Clients frequently worry about this issue but may hesitate to voice their concerns," Budner says. "If parental alienation is present, it must be addressed appropriately." Parental alienation can occur when one parent attempts to undermine the child's relationship with the other parent. This can manifest in various ways, including making negative remarks to the child 116